When you pay for it you to appreciate it more; okay I went down into Manhattan to help a girlfriend out with training at the gym. She was behind me to show her some stuff at the gym, well I went to do just that. Everything I suggested she didn’t want to do that really pissed me off. All that came to mind was if she was paying for a trainer she would do just what she/he said. This is a phenomenon with most things you do not have to pay for you just do not appreciate it. Another example; a friend asked me to help out with a project. I go out of my way to do it to make sure it’s a success for him but the fucker is late and I mean late. Anyone who knows me knows I go crazy when it comes to being on time. Some people go crazy over wire hangers I go crazy over punctuality. I cuss dude out and storm off and it came to mind if he was paying for it he would act differently. Do not get me wrong I am not saying I want payment but I want you to act like you are paying for it. I want you to give me your best and I want you to show up on time damn it! I try to treat my friendship as a job that I am working for a promotion. I give it my best. I try to return calls in a speedy manner and I let them know I love them and I appreciate them. We all take someone for granted if you know who that person is call them and tell how much you love and appreciate them. I know I will be making a call today.
BY THE WAY THIS IS MY 100TH Entry!!!! AYE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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You are telling the truth! When someone "hooks me up" I try to repay them somehow even its not monatary.
If we don't show our appriciation to folks when they help us out the first time, there is a strong chance we won't get that service or same type of quality service again.
That was a true post!
All true...all true.
Congrats on your 100th post!
I made my 100th last week. You are definitely speaking the truth. Some people don't appreciate anything. What gets me is that I used to bend over backwards to help people then when I needed help they weren't around. And one time someone even had the nerve to say, " Well I didn't ask for your help. " After I'd spent all my time giving them advice and trying to pick up the pieces when they were down. That's why I only deal with family. I can't seem to trust anyone else. I have to get to know someone a long time now a days because people are just looking to use you. And of course I'm no fool. When I was a teen I used to try to be there for people until I realized they could care less about me. Now I am living my life for me. That's all we can do. Visit my blog again. I would love your opinion on my " Black Programming " post.
I've learned to give people a "fake" time (a time earlier than necessary because I know he/she will be late). Try it. It worked for me just this past weekend. I blogged about it.
point well taken.
I am so feeling this post. If I say that I am leaving the house at 7:00pm, it means that I am getting in my car at that time. Not that I am putting on my clothes, or just getting up. I have left a few people who aren't on time.
And yeah, if they were paying for it, they would be on time?
And why don't you charge? Personal trainers charge hella money for their time and you should also.
Birds and Cats, they dont need anyone We all know impossible people. They tend to share three main characteristics - they cannot be reasoned with, they believe they can do no wrong, and they are convinced that everything is someone else's fault. If you haven't had some first-hand experience in dealing with such people, even a brief conversation can raise your blood pressure through the roof.
Whoooop whoop whoop whoop whoop
Understand that it's not you, it's them. This can be surprisingly difficult,
ooh, i feel u on that. this society has been revamped to expect something for nothing, a lot for less in return, just INGRATES!!!!!! but, what to do?!?!? me, im moving to anguilla!
Well welcome to the 100 club!! However put on some clothes. We're tired of you teasing us with those cock underware shots.
PEOPLE DONT APPRECIATE SHIT! Thats why I stay in my damn room and avoid unappreciative bitches in the mix!
Thats why I write my books, they pay their money and they appreciate what I have to say.
But don't overextend yourself! Don't be afraid to say no! and always ask yourself, would they do it for me? If you're hesistant with you answer then it's no!
Congrats on the 100th post...I am on my way there too...hopefully during this month.
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